"Can two walk together, unless they are agreed?" — Amos 3:3 KJV
There has to be alignment before there can be united movement.
If two are not "agreed" , this misalignment will cause a problem every time.
This is not simply a statement about agreeing with what someone says, it's about being aligned with that person.
Misalignment will cause problems faster than misinformation.
If I were to use computer language, I would describe it as having the same frequency.
I would paraphrase Amos' question this way:
How can two move together except they have the same frequency?
This is a relationship question.
I suspect that this issue of alignment is the reason why some relationships are just not sustainable.
Frequency may not be visible but it's very real!